In the book Love Life For Every Married Couple by Ed Wheat it mentions 3 things that you need to consider before getting married.
1. Physically
Do not marry if you are not physically ready. This means you are ready to leave your parents and start your own family. Most Filipinos live with their parents after marriage. This is not good in building good relationship. You will not have privacy and develop an intimacy with each other. No matter how close you are with your parents there are some things that you as couple should only share.
2. Emotionally
Do not marry if you are not emotionally ready. When you get married you should be emotionally independent of your own family. You should not put on your mind the idea of going back to your mom when problem occurs. It should be your partner who should fill your emotional needs and vice versa.
3. Financially
Do not marry if you are not financially ready. You should be able to maintain a household. 50% of couples who separates are because of financial issue.
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